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第9章每个成功者都知道的秘密（9）
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&imeyousayyestoagoalorobjective，yousaynotmanymore.Everyprizehasitsprice.Theprizeistheyes;thepriceisthenoriedUkrainian-Ameribaritooldofhisearlydaysstudyingvoiokeapipe，butonedayhisprofessorsaid，"Igor，youwillhavetomakeupyourmiheryter，reatpipe-smoker，youotbeboth."Sothepipewent.
Delayedgratifi
M.ScottPeck，M.D.，authorofthebest-sellerTheRoadLessTraveled，describesthistoolofdiseas"aprocessofsgthepainandpleasureoflifeinsuchawayastoehepleasurebymeetingahepainfirstaoverwith."
Thismightiinedailydeethingassimpleasskippingafavoritelate-nightTVshowaobedearly，tobewideawakeforameetimhtiermresolves.Ayoungiththreedecidedtoiherilementiionforherself.Shesideredtherealitiesofatightbudgetaime，buttheseseemedsmallsacrifireturhatadegreewouldopen.Todaysheisahighlypaidfinansultant.
&ofsueingpastthedrudgeryahedelight."Thefactisthatmanyworthwhileendeavorsaren'tfun，"sayssyndicatedradioandTVortCrim，"True，alllaymakesJohnnyadullbtoturhioplaymakesforterriblefrustrations，becauselife—everewardingone—includescesthataren'tfunatall.Ilikemyjobasajournalist.It'spersonallysatisfying，bititisn'talwaysfun."
Agabalance
Neverfusedisewithrigidity.Perfeottheaim;rather，striveforthepeaindthatbeinginchargeofyourself.
Mostofuserludesinourworktotakeawalkoreatsnack-whateverrevivesandrefreshes.Yourbreathersdon'thytoshakeoutthedgivesomerelief.Suchrewardsativesforfinishingatask，asingyoutomaiu
Truediseachievesabalance，n.Evendiseedstobedised.
Self-development
Disedpeoplearehappierpeoplebecausetheyarefulfilliial.Awomanatoneofmyseminarstoldmeabouthersixyear-olddaughterithateamandpracticedeverymforanhour，swimming2000to3000meters，sherelatedaversatihterhadwithafamilyfriend.
"Doyoulikeswimming?"thefriendasked.
"Yes，Iloveit."
"Isitfun?"
"No!"
Thatsix-year-oldhadlearmanyadultshejoyofdisdself-development.Uheveryworddiseputsusoffbecauseitsouiveandpuruaalkingustomakesurewetoetheliruediseisn'tonyourbagyouwithimperatives;itisatyourside，nudgingyouwithiives.Whehatdiseisself-otself-g，youwon&#eatitsmention，butwillcultivateit.
CharleyBoswell，aformerUyofAlabamafootballstarwithhopesofaprofessionalbaseballcareer，losthiseyesightinWorldWarII，butthatdidn'tstophim"tobeetheNationalBlindGolfes."Hewasquotedassaying，"IwhatI'velost.IonlytwhatIhaveleft."Thatisself-development—thatisdise.
Habit-gstrategies
Manyaperson'sdowryingtogeabadhabitbyfoanundesirablebehaviortoreplaceit.
tlesspeopletellmetheywouldliketoeatbetterbutdon'twantto"giveup"tastyfood.Ratherthanthinkingaboutwhatthey'thave，theyshouldthinkaboutwhattheyeat.Fruitjuicewithsparklierisadelicioussubstitutefh-caloriesoftdrinks;snadcookiespreparedwithwholegrainsasgivedybarsgoodpetition.
Itisogeoldhabits.Awomaaseminarandsaid，"I'msoundised.I'tsticktoadietandmyhouseisalwaysamess.Ifeellikeaslob."Itoldhershewasn'ttotallyundised."Youmadeittothisce.Youarrivepromptlyatea，alydressed."Shealmostsmiled，andthe;There'sprobablyareasonwhyyouhaven'tbeeoloseweightetyourhomei;
Later，Ifoundouttherewasabigreason.Sheedayearbefore.Herhusbandhadbeenanalcoholicwhoverballyabusedherall24yearse.Itneveroccurredtoherthatapoorself-imageingherfromeffegpositiveges.Withthisrealizatioheepinbringingmoredisetoherlife—bygoingforg.Meanwhile，someofherfrieoetoherhouseandhelpherup，puttingherevenmoresolidlyonahabit-gcourse.
Mier
IremembermyschooldaysandMom&#ularreveille:"Timetogetup!"Iagonizedihelastminuteandranmymother'spatieheodhadtogetmyselfup.Finally，tiredofakihatwhenthealarmrang，Iwouldrise—justbecauseIwaardlessofhowIfelt.Ithasworkedeversince.
InFeelingGood，TheherapyDavidD.Burns，M.D.，writes:"Motivatioefirst，adoes!Youhavetoprimethepump.Ifyouwaituntilyou're'inthemood，'youmaywaitforever."Whenyoudon'tfeellikedoihiitoff，butit'softeiaskthatwebeehighlymotivated.
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